Here is an example of what I mean by manipulation....

Her ACTIONS are.....she is on meth, she chooses to be with meth boyfriends, she prostitutes herself out, she repeatedly lies to you.......BUT when she wants/needs something, her TALK is telling you what you want to hear....Hell, sometimes, not even that....you are so elated to talk to her that it doesn't really matter at times...IMO...

So, that is you allowing her to manipulate you....

A good point of you manipulating...................all of your logical fallacies in your arguments....such as the use of ad populum and your attempts at Red Herring.....

Like thestranger said.....we aren't stupid......the only person you are fooling.....is yourself......so the only person you are doing an injustice to............is yourself!