So, you don't believe in hell then....because you said Christ does not let go? And, in theory, we are all "saved"....because he said...."it is finished"....BUT that doesn't mean all will believe....and those are who he still loves enough to give FREE WILL to.....your EX is CHOOSING to do the things she does, and YOU are CHOOSING to let her walk all over you still...

For every scripture you pull (out of context or not)....I could post another that could make a different point...I'm not going to debate scripture...

My point was and still is....let her go....move on with your life.....you can pray for her "reconciliation" with God until the day you die.....BUT believe that your God has someone who will truly love you....

Or, perhaps, have you considered that it isn't your God's will to be with this woman?

I once heard a man teach.....people kept praying and rebuking the "devil" for the flood.....begging God to take away the waters.....when, indeed, it was God who sent the flood.....