Thank you Detective....and I believe our lives are what we make of them....

But, I can't help but to make this point....

Using your own beliefs in heaven and hell......that would say to me.....that Jesus made the ultimate sacrifice...he is love....yet there are those who choose not to embrace him. And, according to that belief in heaven and hell, even Jesus ( being that perfect love).....has to let go.....so much so that he lets people choose to go to hell......

When will you love yourself and her enough....to let go and move on?

To me, that is the ultimate test in love and selflessness.....to let go.....