Detective,

You are obviously not sick enough to stop getting on the roller coaster that has made you nauseated. Actually, you continue to make excuses to buy tickets. It is clear that the advice that is given here is going to be rebuked with your intellect and flair for words. We have all just been where you are and are trying to prevent you from continued pain. I STILL love my ex-husband, but at some point you have to continue with your life. You are not to that point. Please read the Bible as a whole and not use it selectively to benefit your desire for this woman. God does not want you to hurt, but it is your choice. He also doesn't expect you to endanger yourself for her. After a while, the charity has to stop and you have to care about yourself. Take care and God bless!!

Sass