I thank you both, as you have given somethings to consider. I really do not want to faciliate her continuing as she is, the offer to take her to church will stay (I would not refuse that to a released ax murderer who asked me to go, and hopefully would be glad if they were willing to) but maybe I really do need to keep other dialouge to a minimum...its may well be better for her to be alone with her thoughts and God than for me to interject myself too much...probably need to look to Christ more myself than my talking to her...but the offer of church is always there for anyone...can't make her recieve it, but hope that she will