I really wish you'd quit looking at the # of replies as opposed to the # of views. You count only ONE factor in that and that is that every single click means someone has read the thread and NOT responded because they don't care.

That is silly and I say silly because you leave out the factors of those NOT knowing how to respond, those you've argued with and have stopped responding and those who just READ posts and NEVER respond to ANY threads, yours included.

And then there's that person who comes as a newcomer to drag up your old old threads and I'm sure they just love clicking on your threads just to rack up the #'s.

The only person you can worry about is YOU and not why others are not responding. THAT in itself brings the negativity into your thoughts and it shows.

As I write this, I'm thinking you'll probably tell me to quit responding too and I most likely will but I'll come back to read your posts.


and another thing....

when people help you, in ANY manner, that is help period.
Just because people know you on a personal basis does NOT mean they HAVE to do ANYTHING for you. IF they should help, even a tiny bit... you should be glad you got even that.

Are you giving what you expect... if not, NEVER expect more than you can give nor EXPECT someone to do more than you're willing or ABLE to do yourself.
and then you should be THANKFUL for what you did get.... even if it was a friendly "hello"!!!!

Go through the links to see just how many members are on this board.... over 1,000... and what?? You expect each member to respond to your threads or not read them.

IF you can control over 1,000 people on the internet... let me know who you accomplish that task ok.

Last Edited By: chrisgonz Jul 24 09 2:48 PM. Edited 2 times.