Hi wat2do.

My husband of 17 years is a recovering meth addict. He was using for about 10 years before I figured it out. I knew something was going on, I just didn't know what. I didn't know anything about meth, or that it could literally destroy someone and the people around them. It truly is an evil drug.

He has been clean and in recovery for almost 1 year. It has not been an easy road for either of us, and I know there is a long road ahead even still.

I don't know for sure what made my husband decide to quit and seek recovery, although I did say to him, "either get help, or get out!"

I just wanted to say to you that I hope your hubby finds recovery, I pray for him and every addict, and all the families too.

I found the best thing I can do to help my husband, is to help myself, to take care of me. He has to take care of himself, there is nothing I can do for him. His recovery is up to him, just as the decision to seek help has to be his, not mine.

It is seriously a long path, with many ups and downs, and a lot of winding along the way. I needed something for me to help me through, and I found Al-Anon. It has helped me in so many ways. I highly recommend either Al-Anon or Nar-Anon (if available where you live).

Also, this is a great place, with great people. I don't post much, but read often and have gained a lot of knowledge and insight from their experiences, strength and hope.

Prayers for you and yours!