knowfear1-did you get angry with your wife when she confronted you?................... YES at first, then I got terrified of what I was gonna do without ICE. It was a scary time for me. I was nervous about going to rehab and IF I could even quit.

...........Do I 1) take the "intervention" approach and have a few people there that I know he looks up to?; ........... that would be my suggestion, ya know safety in numbers.

He has got to want to quit though. I wanted too, but I wanted to keep it a secret worse. Once everyone knew, then it was much easier.

Also another thing that helped me make the decission was my Dad gave a lady at the rehab my cell number; she called me and we talked for a looooong time. She knew what I was going through and how to talk to me, not at me.

She was a recovering meth addict as well, so she'd been there. She knew what to say to me and I felt comfortable with her.