sorry your going through this.

this is only the way i see it others may see it another way.


i woke up and did not do it again. i did go for treatment after about a yr of being clean,i needed alot of help after using over 20 yrs.

was married while using got out of that,got married again while still using and still with her.

nothing anyone could have done or said while i was using could have made me stop.courts or being locked up never did and if a wife would have told me go to treatment or leave i would have pointed her to the door and replaced them that day

differant people have to do it differantly.some have to him a bottom all will only do it when they decide to. some it my takes lock up hospital others death.

one thing i would do though from all ive seen and read here if you say your going to do something stick to it or otherwise it is a wasted effort, look at it like a little kid and a parent tells them something yet never follows through,you get the same results.