Now my wife has begun pressing me hard to have unsupervised time with my daughter. I have not given in due to how much it scares me to think of my daughter being in a tweaker pad left to her own devices while her mother is in the back room getting high. Not to mention the low life people she associates with.
Since we are not divorced, I realize she legally has equal rights to her. She threatens to pull her from school and constantly harasses me about her coming and taking her.
I established a visitation schedule supervised by myself so she can see her. I know that it is important for her to be in my daughter's life for both of them.
However, the visits are always a nightmare. Usually with her telling me that if she wants to grab her and take her right now then she will or blaming me for the situation being what it is.
The last time I agreed to let her take her for a couple hours during the day it was utter insanity.
Ended with her calling me to resuce them at midnight 70 miles away hiding in the bushes from a deranged using buddy of her's. They took my daughter with them to boost merchandise from department stores and got into an argument when her car broke down resulting in him becoming enraged and threatening to cut my wifes head off among other vulgar and obscene comments right in front of my daughter.
I haven't let her take her again since then and she can't understand why or even remember this happening. It was 3 weeks ago.
Any advice you would have or just opinions on weather I'm doing the right thing or not would be appreciated.